hallownests:

ireject-yourreality:

wellgoatsarecool:

things that are nOt okay:

• going through your children’s things (phone, journals, backpack)
• talking badly aBout your kid to other people
• insulting your kid both to their face and behind their back
• “this is my house you have no privacy”
• hitting your kid
• compare them to other kids

• telling your kid you’re doing them a favor by providing the essentials (food, clothing, education, etc)

• grounding/scolding your kid for accidents that literally happen to everyone (spilling a drink, getting clothes dirty, breaking something)
• take stuff/money from your kid whenever it suits you 
• punish them for opening up to you
• having restrictions from leaving the house that aren’t for safety
• withholding basic human needs as punishment???? (food, privacy, socializing)