lezzyharpy:

overall i feel like people are conflating, consciously or not, the ban they want to see with the ban weve gotten from staff

i would LOVE to see changes to this site that did serious, necessary work to protect minors on this site, that didnt harm sex workers, that didnt for the millionth time mark lesbians and trans women as unsafe, but thats not what were getting, yet so many of the arguments im seeing are defenses of a hypothetical better implementation that doesnt actually exist